To grow up securely and confidently our children need the satisfaction of accomplishing home and school tasks. Here are a few ways we parents can help our children be more self confident:
Encourage your child when genuine compliments can be made. Avoid ridicule and sarcasm. Bring out the best in your child by praising him frequently for what he does best. Remember, what you focus on- your get more of. 
Approach failures as positively as possible. Show ways to avoid immediate mistakes and make positive specific plans for the future. Help your child see the progress that is being made in spite of setbacks.- Set reasonable standards. Each child is unique and even children of the same age will have different maturity levels. Perfectionistic attitudes can't build self-confidence in children.
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Help your child by staying involved with his school, friends, and activities.
Most Importantly:
Enjoy your children! Love your children! Spend time with your children! They are only young once. Be committed to success and be committed to a loving family atmosphere that will leave no room in your child's heart for lack of confidence.
Have a blessed day,
Mrs. Angie Berry,
Rusk Primary School Counselor
